The truth is that I very nearly missed out on becoming a mother - thanks to being brought up by a rabid feminist who thought motherhood was about the worst thing that could happen to a woman.You see, my mum taught me that children enslave women.From the age of 13, I spent days at a time alone while my mother retreated to her writing studio - some 100 miles away.
But one woman didn't buy in to Alice's beliefs - her daughter, Rebecca, 38.The other day I was vacuuming when my son came bounding into the room. His little hands were grabbing me around the knees and his huge brown eyes were looking up at me. Maternal rift: Rebecca Walker, whose mother was the feminist author of The Color Purple - who thought motherhood a form of servitude, is now proud to be a mother herself I love the way his head nestles in the crook of my neck.My mother's feminist principles coloured every aspect of my life.As a little girl, I wasn't even allowed to play with dolls or stuffed toys in case they brought out a maternal instinct. My mother may be revered by women around the world - goodness knows, many even have shrines to her.I was raised to believe that women need men like a fish needs a bicycle.
But I strongly feel children need two parents and the thought of raising Tenzin without my partner, Glen, 52, would be terrifying.Virginia Woolf was mentally ill and the Brontes died prematurely.My mother had me - a 'delightful distraction', but a calamity nevertheless. According to the strident feminist ideology of the Seventies, women were sisters first, and my mother chose to see me as a sister rather than a daughter.As the child of divorced parents, I know only too well the painful consequences of being brought up in those circumstances.Feminism has much to answer for denigrating men and encouraging women to seek independence whatever the cost to their families.Believing that women are suppressed, she has campaigned for their rights around the world and set up organisations to aid women abandoned in Africa - offering herself up as a mother figure.