After he arrived to marry her, her family put enormous pressure on her to get married.
In regular Philippines society, they are much fewer.In a bit I will explain how to stay away from the bad apples. However, from all I’ve seen and experienced, this type of age gap is not a deal breaker.It is a tempting situation for girls who are not actually serious in finding a man and don’t have much of a conscience.For that matter, married women or girls with boyfriends also scam men, with no intention of leaving their Filipino men.There are a very high percentage of Filipina girls who are lesbians that pursue men online – for no other purpose than to milk them for money.
From my experience, I’ve seen this destroy a few men’s lives.The guy wanted to send her money, but she couldn’t pick it up from Western Union. It is a common enough occurrence to warrant being extra careful if a girl’s profile says “18”.They were trying to figure out another family member who could receive the money. The answer: they will only give money if you are 18 or over. In addition, think of how silly you would feel if you visited a girl, went back home and started processing paperwork to bring her home, and at the last moment it all falls apart because she lied about her age.There is no better career available to a young girl than to hook a foreigner man.Average wages over here for an inexperienced young girl may be 0 USD per month for a full time job.I’ve seen many wonderful relationships form, as well as relationships that have crashed and burned.