There was a time-bomb waiting to explode in this relationship at the end of the year anyway when I leave London to go traveling.
She was aware of it, and we both knew that it would be a lot worse to break up then than to break up sooner.
She’d started saying “no” to me and being cold with me after I didn’t reply to one of her texts the night before. On Friday, I was expecting her to come round and she texted me at about 4pm saying she didn’t know if she was coming or not and that she had at least 10 reasons not to.
I told her not to come and that we should stop seeing each other because this is the third time she’d done this to me and I could tell if we carried on, it’s just going to keep happening again and again.
I head out to investigate and my Slovakian is all dressed up and leaving the apartment.
I stop her, she tells me that she came round to see me and I’ve left her to talk to my friends, and that the relationship isn’t working so she’s leaving.
I’m not standing for this shit and she’s pulled a similar stunt a couple of other times.
I’ll get her round at the weekend and end things with her.She fell for me a lot sooner than I thought she would and she fell for me hard.I, as I mentioned before, was quite cold about the situation and said that if she left my life the next day then it wouldn’t affect me too much.I stay away from lovey dovey moments, I keep the compliments at a low and I keep my emotions very much wrapped up. It’s what they need to stay interested and to keep chasing you.The moment you drop that frame, it all starts to go downhill for you with an English girl as she tries to take advantage of the situation by reaching for the power.There were a couple of times where she said to me that I had to change if I wanted to see her again because she was unhappy in the relationship with me, and she said she felt like a whore when she came round sometimes.