The first few weeks when you’re getting to know someone can be filled with nerves, excitement and expectation.Ever wonder what a man really thinks during those early encounters with you? Have you ever gone on a few dates with a guy, thought things were going well, and then things fizzled out without warning?He’ll tell you what makes a guy want to continue asking a woman out and what you can do to trigger a man to feel the kind of attraction for you that makes him want to keep asking you out.
That means a woman will often think she’s in a relationship with a man when he’s still feeling things out.
So she becomes too available, too eager, and too invested in where this is all going.
If this has happened to you, you know how disappointing it can be.
But if you understand a guy’s process when it comes to dating, you can save yourself a lot of frustration and instead set yourself up for the kind of lasting love you’re looking for with the right guy.
That means you don’t expect that a man’s not dating anyone else or that he needs to call you at a certain time.
And you don’t assume you’re spending every weekend together, either.
It can be a one-off, with unbearable apathy toward each other afterward. Inviting her over to a simple but sweet home-cooked meal, complete with dessert and wine. Sex alone can be cold, impersonal, and objectifying.
Pulling her closely and tightly to yourself all of a sudden and enjoying the intimate silence. We men forget two game-changing things: 1) women are just as sexual as we are and 2) we men are supposed to be sexual, too. However, sexual is a progression, like a jazz tune.
It goes up and down, it’s simple and then it’s complex, it pushes and pulls.
Sexual is a double helix between the mind and the body, because they’re so inter-connected. You can open doors, pull chairs, get the checks, cook dinners, and call her as often as modernly possible.
She also starts expecting things from him – she assumes they’re going to be seeing each other every weekend, she expresses annoyance when he doesn’t call her more often, or she assumes an exclusive relationship instead of actually discussing it.