I truly wanted to do what I felt was God’s will, but I also really didn’t want to give up the relationship.
Did those caring, sensitive, funny, godly men really exist?For instance, one guy that I dated was a very nice guy.In some relationships, I found myself compromising some of my values to be more in line with that guy’s.In other relationships, I began to think that some of the things I had wanted in a husband were perhaps more wishful thinking than things that could actually be.” “If we have children, will it be important to him that they are raised by godly principles and involved in church?
” It turns out we were not in sync on these issues, and I decided to end the relationship. But I began to notice subtle patterns that bothered me.
Since I had not done such a great job of choosing relationships on my own, I decided to let God choose the next one.
I wouldn’t even consider dating again until I had sought His will about the person and the relationship.
His job often seemed more important to him than our relationship, and he would repeatedly put friends or family before me.
For someone whose “love language” is spending quality time together, that was a major issue.
Ever had these thoughts about someone you are dating? Too many of my friends are finding themselves there now too.