Soon after the marriage it became apparent that if he were chalk, she would be cheese. Along with all the usual challenges of convincing your parents of a love marriage to the girl/guy of your choice, this once comes with its own set of hurdles – like age old traditions, strong stereotypes held by many people, and above all, your parents’ fear of social ostracism should they allow you to marry someone from a different caste (particularly, a so-called “lower” one). Here are some tips and strategies thousands have benefited from, which you can also use to cope with the situation: 5 Tips to Handle Intercaste Relationships. Have you ever tried to convince your parents of your love marriage to your boyfriend/girlfriend? I’m eagerly waiting to read about your experiences in the comments section.
No wonder she totally changed as a person, shut herself up emotionally and is living in a mental prison ever since. But what if your parents are stubborn and just won’t give in to your tricks and strategies?
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Coach your girlfriend/boyfriend accordingly before this meeting (Disclaimer: I’m not talking about putting up a fake face to your parents.I’m only emphasizing that they need to put their best feet forward when they meet them).It depends on personality types, beliefs, likes and dislikes, attitude towards the relationship etc.And these things can never be even gauged without spending at least a year or two in an active relationship with each other (which you hopefully have, with your significant other).If you’ve been following Love in India’s romantic messages for a while, you’d know that we’ve already talked about inter-caste marriages and inter-religion marriages.
Another of the most common questions I get asked by readers is “I have a girlfriend/boyfriend. ” I thought I’ll put my thought together on that today. Convince your parents of your love marriage by making them meet him/her: The first step to convincing your parents of a love marriage is making them meet your girlfriend/boyfriend.Don’t forget to also throw in a few examples of people you know whose marriages were arranged and have turned out to be unhappy. Convince your parents of your love marriage on the basis of compatibility: Explain to your parents the importance of mutual compatibility and understanding in a marriage, which essentially needs to be gauged (to the extent possible) before taking the final decision.;) Cite these isntances, stating how being in a relationship with someone for some time before marriage is essential to judging mutual compatibility and consequently, to creating a better chance for having a happy life together. Compatibility goes much beyond castes, horoscopes, food habits, family background and financial capability.Help them know each other and familiarize with each other.Later when you bring up the question of marriage with your parents, you’re talking about someone they know very well.If that decision has already been taken, any amount of pretend-dating doesn’t count. Convince your parents of your love marriage citing crucial mutual emotional needs: Different people have different emotional needs from their partners.