They act in accordance with who they are and what they believe and don’t cater their behavior for a guy, or do things solely to keep him interested and happy.When you have weak boundaries, you may sell yourself out in a relationship and put up with treatment that you know is objectively unacceptable.Not everyone is a match and sometimes, two people are just incompatible.
People with high self-esteem don’t constantly question their actions and feel conflicted about the right thing to say or do.They act on how they feel and are comfortable being their true, authentic selves.Everyone’s path will be different, but no matter what, having a picture of what high self-esteem looks like, and how it can play out in relationships, is helpful and can help reveal the areas you may need to work on.Having high self-esteem doesn’t guarantee a happy relationship, but it does equip you with the skills to identify what you want and realize you deserve to get it, and the strength to walk away if something falls short.People with high self-esteem believe they are worthy of love and don’t question how someone feels about them.
They know that they are good, competent, and lovable and trust that the right person for them will see this.
A woman with healthy boundaries will not lose herself in a relationship, and will not allow her identity to be entirely contingent upon how he sees her.
She will continue to maintain her own life outside of the relationship without giving up her friends, hobbies, or alone time.
Self-esteem isn’t an essential need like food or water, but it’s a supplement that can either dramatically improve your life, or keep you stunted and unfulfilled.
The fact is, you can only let in as much love from the outside as you feel on the inside.
When a girl is insecure, however, and a guy leaves, she spirals.