Put it this way—when I was single, if I had a chance to sleep with…I don’t know…who is the most distasteful female celebrity? To me, that’s the perfect metaphor—very attractive women ARE celebrities. And while it might seem like a great ride being a celebrity, tell that to poor Britney. Or any of the people who crumble from the pressure and attention foisted upon them.Men are to pretty girls what paparazzi are to celebrities.
Without knowing more, it’s hard to tell, though I think Evan is right on. The reason why an ugly guy can have a hot girlfriend is that women can feel attracted to men for reasons other than looks.That’s the truth, even if some people don’t want to believe it.It really is true that normal, every day and even what some call “ugly” guys can make women feel attracted to them as they talk and interact.If a man is able to make a woman feel attracted to him in other ways (e.g.
humor, charisma, charm, confidence, etc), she actually starts to look at his physical appearance in a positive light.
I know I’ve gone on a bit of a tangent here, Ashley, because it’s very rare that we hear that the root of someone’s problems stems from being too attractive, but I believe that is the case.
Some of the most attractive women I know in Los Angeles—tall blondes with thin waists and big boobs—are 40 and single, because nice guys don’t approach them and slimy guys are always on the make.
What’s really difficult for pretty girls is trying to assess when a guy IS sincere.
I mean, it’s tough enough for an average woman to tell when a guy is interested in a relationship or sex. And you think that if you insist on not doing any more than kissing that you’re weeding out the “wrong” guys. Although it’s unpopular to say, sex is rightfully important to men.
Their constant validation makes them feel important.