However, compare the dating experience to looking for a job. Yet revising your résumé, applying at lots of places, and going on multiple interviews helps you to be less nervous each time you’re in a recruiter’s office and teaches you how to sell yourself to potential employers.
It can be nerve-racking to go on a lot of first dates in a row, especially if you’ve been out of the dating scene for a while (or have never really “dated”).And if you’re looking for commitment and eventually marriage, you probably want to avoid “playing the field” because it seems to trivialize the process of finding something so important in your life.But while most of our users are very comfortable communicating with multiple matches online, they sometimes get a bit more hesitant when emails turn into phone calls that start turning into dates, and they find themselves going for coffee with Mike on Tuesday, bowling with Bill on Thursday, and to a movie with Steve on Friday.Is dating multiple people dishonest, sleazy, and flat-out wrong?Or is it healthy, even beneficial, to date multiple people at the same time in your quest to find a soul mate?
As long as you respect the feelings of the people you see and are truly looking for qualities that will lead to long-term love, it’s okay not to go steady with someone as of the first date.
If you’re a red-blooded male, you can probably relate – there are certainly worse situations to find yourself in than hooking up with a wide variety of gorgeous women!
Maybe this is the reason why you’re reading this blog, and it’s your dream to live this kind of lifestyle…
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It’s true on e Harmony that the more people you communicate with, the faster you will find the person who is right for you.
no matter if they’re his side kicks or if they work for the bad guys. I remember a time when I didn’t know how to date multiple women and didn’t think this kind of life would ever be possible for ME…