I speak Spanish fluently; therefore, I can’t play the “…no jaaabl0 Españoler mucho bueno. I’m naturally outgoing and funny, so I can really be myself when speaking Spanish.It is hard for one’s true personality to translate when speaking another language, but luckily I am a fluent Spanish speaker and have learned enough Paisa slang to be my witty self.
A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.D.) I started to read about this subject back in high school.So I do not have that instant “gringo effect” on them.The “gringo effect” is the reaction a foreign guy gets from girls here in Medellin.So I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin.
Actually, I got more instant attention in Southern California; the “Latino effect.” The only thing that makes me stand out to women here is my height, thank God for that one tall great uncle! Regarldess, I look on the bright side and see this as an advantage.Some will amaze, some will teach, others will make you smile, but all can aid you on your journey, wherever you are going. Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. I have been dating Colombian women for over 6 years now.It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner.Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh.