In this case, it’s about tapping into woman’s insecurities and confusion over male behavior, with the promise of understanding of learning what’s going on behind the scenes of a man’s mind. “I don’t want a serious relationship right now.” WHAT HE REALLY MEANS IS… without trying to change me or turning our relationship into MORE WORK and LESS FUN than I can have on my own.” Does this make sense?
“I ONLY WANT A RELATIONSHIP with a woman who already has her act together, is attractive, healthy, independent, easy-going, confident, and who is emotionally in control of herself and her own life.. Again, he’s NOT imagining a picture of an overly-emotional, predictable, needy woman who is trying to get him to connect with her and sharing her feelings because she’s so worried about things “working out.” In my google-searching, I found a post by this woman, who pretty much summarized his point of view.
3) At the same time, I hate sitting around with a group of women complaining that “All men are dogs,” etc.
I know men are more complicated than that and that there are men who are out there who really want to connect with other men as friends and women as partners (or men if they are gay).
It has taken me a long time to see this particular pattern, but it’s EVERYWHERE. But the problem is that women DON’T WANT you to give up your status and “manliness”. and who enjoys creating and building sexual tension. and you can’t “convince” a woman to feel it with logic, gifts, and NICENESS. Now that I’ve shared these three mistakes, you need the next piece of the puzzle.
Men, in effect, say “Hi, I want your approval and attention. Women aren’t ATTRACTED to men who act weak and tentative. Women know if a guy speaks the SECRET LANGUAGE of “Sexual Communication”. Attraction is the result of a woman meeting a man who understands how attraction works… You need to get an education on how attraction works for women…
Don’t be “predictable”, or his attraction will magically end (must I be in a different country each time he calls…? Don’t discuss any emotional issues at all, ever, God forbid, or it’s all over, period 4. The way to create a great emotional connection with a man is to never burden him with your emotions.
Don’t assume that just because you’ve been dating for months you’re in a “relationship” (WTF? Try to appear at all times to be a)selective b)unemotional c)hard-to-get d)a robot woman 6. It’s hard to imagine exactly what this great emotional connection consists of, except the idea that the man “feels great” when he’s with you, better than when he is single, and you as the woman are not constantly analyzing the relationship.
A woman can like everything about you, but if you do these things (or even ONE of these things), it can DESTROY your chances of success. Women can FEEL IT when they’re with a guy who “gets it”.
Here are three of the BIG things that single women hate: If I had to describe the one single thing that both annoys women and DESTROYS a guy’s chances, it would be this. Women know very quickly if they’re talking to a guy who understands himself and women…
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“How to catch and keep a man.” Those ads are as oddly ubiquitous as the text link ads for Acai Berry Wonder Diets, but I always assumed that ads with links like “Why Men Withdraw and What to Do About It” were for women who are more pathetic and malleable than me. Because men are so hard to understand, and Christian Carter has spent years reading every relationship book ever published, and he has thought deeply about the psychology of men and women when they are dating. So sign up and give him your credit card for his e-book at a price of .97 and his emails (interviews with relationship and dating experts) at a monthly charge of .97.
There are a few particular things that REALLY annoy single, attractive women.