And when she didn't believe you were in the same boat with her, when she felt like she was the only one rowing, she bailed. She doesn't want to go through the terrifying process of doing that with someone new.
It's easier to be mad than to feel hurt, disappointed, or to get her hopes up again. And there will be a scar that covers it, making her a little more jaded, a little less open and a little more cynical. By winning her back, you prove to her that you really love her from this point forward. so check out our friends, Never Liked It Anyway, for more advice on putting your ex behind you or getting her back.She thinks if she can convince herself she doesn't love you, maybe, just maybe, the ache in her heart will stop hurting so much. And every step she took with you was a step toward the future.Every step she took with you was a bonding experience. Every step was another investment on her part (and yours, too).We didn’t see each other for a week, then she invited me to her sister’s house to watch the College World Series, and when we were leaving, she made out with me.
We started seeing each other again, almost every day, and it was as if we were still dating, minus intimacy.She also knows that you are hung up on her, and that you will do whatever she asks.This gives her way too much power over you – and, for what it’s worth – doesn’t make you any more attractive to her. She’s using you because she’d rather have you in her life on HER terms and hope that you’ll put up with it. Because as you'll see, there's something she desperately wants — something that only YOU can give her. Is it possible that she may still be desperate for you to "win her back" — even though she swears she's done?All of the questions are from women, but, thanks to LJ, we can now add one from a man.