[Read: How to deal with insecurity in a relationship] That’s the strange power of insecurity and insecure men in a relationship.Experiences with insecure men The first time I ever dated an insecure guy was almost a decade ago.
[Read: Why we end up falling out of love in a relationship] And a few relationships later, I met another great guy.And within a few weeks of dating this new guy, I started seeing the same symptoms that I had seen in my earlier boyfriend, great guys who give great advice, but eventually turn into men who can never be pleased.[Read: 15 shocking signs of insecurity in a subtly controlling boyfriend] Insecure men aren’t always insecure though.At times, it may just be the fear of losing you that makes your man insecure.Insecurity in your man can also make you antisocial and stunt your growth.
Before you know it, you’d start to avoid all your friends and spend all your time with him.[Read: The right way to have a perfect start to a new relationship] The mind of an insecure man It took me quite a few years to actually see what I was experiencing now and then with guys I date.Acknowledging the fact that you’re dating an insecure man is never easy.And then, it was the same with my job and with the amount of time I spent in office and how much I spend on shopping. But he always seemed hurt and pained when I went out without him. No matter what I did, unless I had his approval, he was always upset by something or the other. Nothing could ever please him, and he always had a way of pointing flaws in the things I did.I tried changing myself for him so he could be proud of me. I was in this relationship for almost three years before we had to go our own ways for good.If your man doesn’t trust you or always seems suspicious of your behavior, there’s a good chance he’s got a lot of insecurity to deal with.