Let me paint a common story for you: It’s been a while since you’ve started trying to get better at dating and it seems like you’re no further along than you have been before. The more posts you read, the more approaches you make… The things that hold us back in dating almost always systematically bleed into the other parts of our lives as well and it’s only when we can be honest with ourselves, confront and address these issues that we can manage to move forward and start making the progress we As I’ve mentioned before: negativity is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Nerd Love, even in myself in different aspects of my daily life. If you could master any instrument on earth, what would it be? What was your proudest moment from the past twelve months? What was your worst haircut / hairstyle of all time? When you see peers / competitors getting things you want, how do you react? Who is the last person that deeply disappointed you? ) Would you consider yourself an introvert, extrovert, or ambivert? Would you rather have a live-in massage therapist, or a live-in chef?
Do you have any physical features that you try to cloak or hide?
Do you have any personal rituals for the end of the year?
If you could sit down with your 15-year old self, what would you tell him or her? What’s one dream that you’ve tucked away for the moment? What’s one mistake you keep repeating (and repeating)? What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
If you could save one endangered species from extinction, which would you choose? What’s going to be carved on your (hypothetical) tombstone? What’s in your pocket (or purse, or man-purse) right now? What’s your most urgent priority for the rest of the year? What’s your recipe for recuperating from extreme heartbreak? Would you rather have an extra 0 a day, or an extra 2 hours a day? What are you most grateful for, right now, in this moment?
If you could enroll in a Ph D program, with your tuition paid in full by a mysterious benefactor, what would you study — and why?
If you could custom blend a perfume or cologne, what would it include?and hopefully, help you to feel more deeply connected to the people you love. With the right question, you might discover something you never knew, about someone you’ve known… ) Are you living your life purpose — or still searching? How long can you go without checking your emails or texts? If a mysterious benefactor wrote you a check for ,000 and said, “Help me solve a problem — any problem! If you could choose your own life obstacles, would you keep the ones you have? If social media didn’t exist, how would your life be different? You’re not getting any responses from your online dating profile. Over the years I’ve seen these issues crop up again and again; I’ve seen them in friends, in the letters I’ve gotten as Dr.