If you even try to pull one over on a woman, she won’t be happy about, no matter how much you win her over with your personality before you meet. So, if you have already noticed that she is starting to open up to you more and there is a chance to finally ask for her phone number, just go for it! As with the emails, waiting too long won’t do you any good.In fact, she might completely forget that she gave you her number and not even recall which one you are anymore.
If we ever do this contest again, and I think we will, perhaps I will do an age-split where I have three sets of judges, one set 18-23, one 24-32, and one 33-45.
Then each guy can submit one profile for each age group. I’ll have to think more on this, and your comments and suggestions are welcome.
Just in case you didn’t know, I had guys submit their online dating profiles without photos to be judged on a scale from 1 to 10 by 13 unmarried female judges, the winner getting 0. All three of their profiles are pasted below in their entirety, so if you want to just skip ahead and read them, go for it.
The pictures of the judges and the exact details of the contest are here. First I will give you some data on our specific findings. Finding 1 – Profiles varied wildly from woman to woman. Some women would rank a profile a 10 or a 9, and others would rank the exact same profile a 1 or 2, even if the woman was a similar or identical age. So many women out there not only have extremely different personalities and tastes, but are also at different points in their lives if their ages are around the same.
However, this doesn’t mean that you should digitally enhance your photos to the point of perfection.
You still need to look genuine and real and, above all things, you still need to look like yourself.Finding 4 – The highest-ranked profiles were around 1500 characters long.This one surprised me initially until I read into the profiles more deeply.Your dating profile should only exist to give women a little taste of what you have to offer them instead of throwing an entire package in their face with hopes that they’ll catch it on the first try – remember that. This would hold especially true if you are looking for a woman to get into a long-term relationship with. This might not sound like a big deal to you, but looking good in your photos is an absolute must.As in the world of traditional dating, honesty is key in grabbing and maintaining a woman’s interest online. If your actual looks play a vital role in real life, your photos will play just as vital a role in the digital world.Keep in mind that women on the Internet will talk with a lot of other men, not just you.