On the other hand, when a woman acknowledges him for all the things he’s doing well, he will almost certainly want to deepen the relationship and stay in it. We’re supposed to be emotional robots with no feelings or desires and just accept anything a guy is doing without complaint? You create a relationship with those qualities by inspiring those things within the relationship.The problem with neediness is that instead of inspiring all of those positive relationship qualities, the “needy person” acts as if their partner is denying them those good relationship qualities…
It’s not a money thing but more of a do-gooder thing to her.
In any case, she took my understanding a little for-granted and added the second day before mentioning it to me.
” Since, I’m also somewhat busy, the answer is often no.
She’s exhausted most of the time when we do hang out.
Life is about choices and I feel like an increasing number of women are lying to themselves about that reality.
When two things truly conflict you have to pick one, you just can’t have it all at the same time.She would be far too “independent” to go back to one day a weekend, because she doesn’t “do things just for guys.”It’s not unusual for her to tell me that “I have dinner with a friend Monday, an event on Tuesday, a soccer game on Thursday, a meeting on Friday, and the festival Saturday (and now) again on Sunday.Do you have Wednesday or sometime during the day on the weekends open?I think its fine to say that if you want a relationship you need to prioritize having a relationship, but you also have to be able to communicate what your needs are if you want a relationship. So, while he might not “be single for more than a week,”(by the way the sheer arrogance of that statement is enough to make me want to vomit) he may never have a successful relationship either.When I write dating tips and relationship advice for a new mode, I am writing to a female audience.But neediness is not gender-specific – guys make the mistake of being “needy” too!