Would he then be as afraid to tread upon the precarious grey paths? The first chilly winds that blow up against one’s being in the process are the ethico-moral ones.
Ever been on the receiving end of that unequivocal tenet of advice picked from a rather exhaustive section of the relationship Bible, called the ‘Ex code? Life is more grey and it is through the differential mixing of the black and white colors at the dual ends of the spectrum that varying hues of differing contrasts and intensity are produced to give life its essential experiential flavor. In my last article that dealt with a different facet of the ‘Ex-code’ and answered a question that has baffled many for eons (whether it is really possible to be friends with an ex), I had clearly dismissed black and white dictates as an impossibly unrealistic guide to stick to.Rules to dating your friend or relatives ex wife or girlfriend?Real simple what’s your position on it and what’s your experience would you date your friends/families ex or be ok if they dated your? Did the writer ever fall in love with a bestie’s ex? What if his real possibility of love existed with the person his best friend had just dumped?
Would he then be as uptight about the rules he laid out in black ink? Now that we have kicked the first hurdle in approaching a valid question about dating a friend’s ex to the curb, we can journey ahead, even if it means braving the outrageous storm.This can be extremely tempting if they ended on bad terms and you know you’ll find a sympathetic ear.3. For instance, if your friend doesn’t want to go to parties where her ex will be in attendance, don’t pressure her.But don’t assume she doesn’t want an invite if you haven’t asked! Don’t ask your man if you’re prettier/smarter/better at Scrabble than his last girlfriend.It is only through walking down on the grey stretch of freshly laid tarmac or sailing out on misty greys of the ocean or getting drenched in the rains brought about by ominous swathes of grey in the sky that one learns to differentiate one shade from another and taste life’s throbbing vitality.In a sense, this experiential living full of lessons isn’t unlike tasting the universe so that one can exactly decipher the mystifying recipe that has gone into its making.So what happens when you accidentally date your friend’s ex, how do you cope in such a situation?