There are literally hundreds of apps to choose from, and if you’re a busy guy looking for something meaningful, scrolling through an endless stream of music-festival selfies probably isn’t the best use of your time.But that doesn’t mean smartphone dating isn’t for you.Want to know more about what Love Begins At will do for you?
(Want to a shot at model and actress Cara Delevingne, or even Sharon Stone?Go for Raya.) If you go this route, prepare to be Googled and judged.Someone will love you for who you are.◊♦◊Ladies, ditch your unrealistic lists. There are fewer dating issues when you can communicate your wants and needs clearly and have confidence and self-respect.A man who never graduated college might be brilliant (Steve Jobs). Yet the ‘single over 40’ myth of diminishing chances at a crossroads in life still lingers, especially among those single men and women over 40 themselves.
The truth is there’s never been a better time to date.
Sure, we’re more experienced than in our 20s, but we’re more open to new things, meeting new people, and reinventing ourselves.
For many, getting out there and meeting new people is high on the priorities list.
It’s not likely to happen like that at this age, and on the rare occasions when it does, the relationship is usually based on nothing more than lust. A mature woman who values herself doesn’t want to date a man who’s a victim or stuck in the past.
Would you rather crash and burn or have a slow sizzle that bursts into hot flames over time? She’s going to walk away and find a grownup guy.◊♦◊Guys, correct me if I’m wrong, but I believe there’s a ‘lid for every pot’, a body type for every guy. Those things are far more important than a Harvard or Yale degree, or whether or not he speaks Mandarin.◊♦◊People in big cities say it’s hard to meet anyone.
(Hey, to echo Lloyd Christmas, there’s referred to it as the “Soho House of dating apps”—but if you can manage to get an invite, we say go for it.